Anna - posted on 12/08/2012 ( 18 moms have responded )
i am 22 and 3 months pregnant and have been dating my bf for almost a year he is 21. We are both not finacially at the moment able to afford a place I am currently living at my parents and he lives with his dad. He says hes going to save for a place so when the baby is born we can move in with him, however I dont feel we have been dationg long enough to move in together and i want to be able to make sure that we can afford monthly rent and a safe place to raise the baby and everything for the baby my first priority is the baby. my paretns are very supportive of me and are willing to help any they can. My bf has yet to talk to my parents about it and has yet to buy anything for the baby and help with my medical bills. My parents think i need to stay at home till he can prove he is going to step up and help finacially ik he will be a good dad but hes just not helping finacially at the moment and sometimes asks me for money cuz he ran out. Ik my parents would help with anything i need if i ever needed and his parents can hardly make ends meet and pay rent and is always asking my bf for money. I dont want to ruin my relationship with my parents if i move out but i also dont want my relationship with my bf to suffer if i stay at home after the baby is born. idk what to do im torn.