Should I Move Out Of My Mom's House because it's too crowded

Vanessa - posted on 05/13/2016 ( 10 moms have responded )

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My brother and I moved in with my mom when I started my junior year of high school and now I'm in college and I have twin baby girls living with 3 teenage kids and I'm carrying one more. The house is over crowded and my boyfriend, I and my brother are considering moving out soon, is it a smart idea? My boyfriend is going to pay for the housing and bills while I parent the kids. Is that good enough reason or should I stay at my house? I'm due in a couple days and I don't know how to deal with twins and a newborn in a house with 3 teenagers

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Sarah - posted on 05/18/2016

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But you aren't supposed to have sex for 6 weeks, especially after the stress of carrying twins.

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Sarah - posted on 05/18/2016

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What does your choice to have and raise your kids have to do with staying or going? Your about to give birth, moving is impractical.

Vanessa - posted on 05/18/2016

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The doctors were mostly trying to talk me into getting a abortion or putting the twins up for adoption, but thank you for your advice

Sarah - posted on 05/18/2016

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Me neither, between the sore breasts and the sleep deprivation, I was a zombie. Sex? ugh!

Dove - posted on 05/18/2016

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Didn't the doctor tell you to wait 6-8 weeks? I know it's too late now and it seems all is well, but you really need to make wiser choices for the future. You put yourself and your baby at great risk by engaging in sex so soon after birth. I was barely conscious for the first several months of my twins life... sex was the LAST thing on my mind.

Vanessa - posted on 05/18/2016

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Okay thank you! I was having sex after they were born. We were using a condom and I was being safe, and It just happened.

Dove - posted on 05/18/2016

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Your babies are barely 9 months old and you are about to give birth? Did you have sex the day they were born or something?

If you are going to be caring for 3 infants... I highly recommend living where ever you are going to get the most help.

Vanessa - posted on 05/18/2016

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My twins were the result of a rape, and it happened after I visited my boyfriend in California, and the baby I'm having now is his. I was deciding to move in with my friend since, I'm due soon and then later on move out when the kids are old enough.

Michelle - posted on 05/18/2016

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Maybe you should have thought about that before now. If you are due in a couple of days and this was posted 5 days ago, it's probably too late.
We can't tell you what is best for you but seeing as you are adult enough to be having sex without protection then I would say you need to move out and be an adult completely.

Dove - posted on 05/17/2016

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You are an adult and about to be the mother of 3.... should have been out on your own before starting a family in the first place....

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