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I have 3 wonderful boys. The 2 older ones are my husbands and the youngest is a "FWB" (slept with him for 2 years) son. FWB family knows nothing about me.
I told the FWB that I was pregnant and he asked for a month to make up is mind. At the end of a month he told me he wanted nothing to be with me or the child but stayed in contact with me. He wants updates and photos twice a year now but still wants nothing to do with the child.
My husband is ok with the situation but doesn't treat my youngest like one of his own. Also husbands family don't approve of him staying with me.
My question is since my husbands family don't want anything to do with my youngest or me and his real father don't either. Do I have the right to tell my youngest sons fathers parents that they have a grandson?
I want to do whats right for my children and to say to my youngest that I did everything I could so he would know is real fathers family.