Should I stay or go?

Martha - posted on 10/20/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I have been with baby's father for 6 years and we have a 3 year old. We currently live with MIL house, we live in basement with no kitchen or shower or real bedrooms, closet space. I am a SAHM. He makes good money and whenever I bring up moving out he doesn't want to talk about it and doesn't want to live in an apartment. I think anywhere is better than where we are. He doesn't seem interested in getting married soon and the thought of having another child doesn't make him too happy and he wants to wait...am I asking for the impossible fir wanting our own place after 3 years...I am so tired of playing house.

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Crystal - posted on 10/20/2013

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I'm married but have the same problem - we could afford our own place but he said he doesn't want to live differently bc right now we only pay heat water cable ect but no rent he is super connected to his mother which I think is why we are still here I had my own place when we met 61/2 yrs ago moved w him to ny from jersey figured out he has an apartment in his mothers house been stuck here ever since but w the second baby he's finally willing to start looking there's no room to put this baby . I pray to God we get a place soon & that y'all figure a way to get out of your mil house I know it's torture

Eraina - posted on 10/20/2013

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No your not asking for the impossible, it is very understandble as you are a stay at home mother and you spent more time at home then him, so it seems that he possibly does not see it that way and doesnt understand because he is hasn't experienced what you do. Maby it would be good to explain in detail if not already how it is for you at home most of the time rather than how much space you guys have and see what he says

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