Kasi - posted on 05/08/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
The 1st time I ever had sex I got pregnant. I had only been dating the guy about 3 mths and the minute I told him he disappeared. I went thru my pregnancy alone. When my now 9 yr old daughter was 6 weeks old I met a great man that wanted to marry me and adopt my daughter. We married a short 6 months later. Less than a month later the biological father's grandmother pressured him into asking for a DNA test and wanted him to try for custody. Well obviously the DNA came back and she was his. We set up a visitation schedule and a child support amount but within 2 months he asked if he could sign his rights over to my husband!!! We were thrilled! Well, now she is 9 years old my mother wants me to tell her but my husband and I don't want to. I know for a fact that her biological father would just end up hurting her in the long run, not to mention my hubby is the only dad she has ever known. What should I do? To tell or not to tell? And if so, when?