Sarah - posted on 03/08/2014 ( 18 moms have responded )
My daughters father didn't want to know her for first couple of years. He wanted me to have an abortion initially. I did try to get a relationship going between them. It failed. Cut a long story short I've now been in a relationship and due to be married soon, he's great with her my daughter calls him daddy. She doesn't know anything different he's all she knows.
I've recently received an email from an app on my iPhone called LinkedIn. It's from my daughters biological father. He's poured his heart out says he's been searching for her for the past 2 years. I turned up at his house today he seemed stunned but he basically said he's changed he really wants to be apart of her life. He has another son who he sees regularly. He's got a job now, years ago he wasn't willing to work at all. He says he wouldn't get in the way of my daughters and my husband to be relationship. He says he's willing to do what it takes, and he accepts my daughter calls another man dad he wouldn't want to get in the way of that.
Please help anyone got any advice. Would this completely disrupt my daughters life or will it in the future if I decide to keep things the way they are? I really want to do the right thing by my daughter I would want her to hate me later in life or hate my partner