Jenny - posted on 11/26/2014 ( 11 moms have responded )
Hi moms ..please help . My husband passed out before 5 years from cancer. My son now is 12 years old ..hes thinking that his dad is dead. But the truth is that his bio dad is alive and he visits us everyday to see if we need something .my son knows that he is his moms friend and he loves him thinking that he is a friend of mine . His bio dad is married and he is with his family ...im feeling sick of this situation . Should i tell him that ur father is not dead. He is alive and the man that he is cariing for us he is ur dad and not a friend. By the way .. his bio dad is married and he has 3 kids he is with his family he comes visit us everyday but at the end of the day he is with his wife and children and im struggling alone.should i tell my child ?? What should i do ? Is now better than after?