User - posted on 01/29/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
my children;s father has left me pregnant with our second child and got married to a woman. i don't know where he is , I'm not in touch, i have exempted him from child support as well. he is free. but i keep waiting for him. unable to move on for myself. for kids, i have moved on. but i keep waiting for him though i have not initiated any contact.
but if at al he comes back, what do i do? my heart says give him a chance, and my brains say I'm an idiot to think that way. but deep down i have a feeling he will be back for me. its been 7 years now its all on and off. but he left a year and half back when i was pregnant with our baby no 2. he does not even know that our second one is a boy and is now 8 months old. huh, strange i know.
but just a thought, should di give him a chance if he comes at all? I'm forgiving by nature but that doesn't mean i have opened a forgiveness shop.
any inputs ?