Nikki - posted on 06/15/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
I am debating if I should even get my kid's father a father's day card. Not one but three of them are not good fathe's like they could be. My first was in jail for 8 yrs of a 12 yr olds life and now he is out making more kids and not participating with the events and pre-teen adolescent ups and downs in my son's life. My second child is 4 her dadad lives outa town he comes in town every other month and when he comes he expects my daughter to spend weeks at a time with him when he hardly calls or pays child support when he is gone. He doesn't understand that she doesn't feel comfortable. My third child is one years old. Me and her father have been seperated since she was three months old because of the disrespect and lack of support he has shown me towards his daughter as far as spending quality time with her and not favoring his 2 year old son over her. I have been through so many tough times with him in these last nine months that I don't believe that he deserves anything from us a card might be too fake. I feel the other childs mother should do it big for him since he caters to her needs and has his son constantly and left my daughter out here to fend for herself besides his 150 child support I had to file in order for him to pay otherwise that would another way to control me by not watching my daughter when I have things to do or need a break or buy her things unless he wants to. I'm just fed up. Do these father's deserve anything ladies?