Jennifer - posted on 10/01/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
I have been with the father of my 2 kids for almost 8 years. The last year or so, I have been really unhappy. He cheated on me, and I never got past it. On top of that, he doesn't work and doesn't seem to be looking for work. Our 2 kids go to daycare that I pay weekly.Occasionally he pays half of daycare, when he has money. A little over a year ago his Dad passed away very suddenly, and that seems to be when everything went downhill for us. We have to live with my parents because we can't afford to live on our own. He doesn't do anything around the house to keep it up. Leaves dishes, pop cans, food, everything out in the open. Until I get tired of it and take care of it. I told him more than once that I felt like a single parent. He told me he was sorry,things would change, and they didn't. So I finally asked him to leave. Now we aren't living together, and he is very emotional and telling me he wants to work on our relationship. I just don't know that I do. I am so confused. Any advice?