Michelle - posted on 12/08/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
What do I do ?? My just turned 4 year old twin boys are having separation issues . I am with them 24/7 . They have started a language class in Farsi on Saturday's with other children. My boys are the youngest in the group . When I leave they cry . I was taking classes myself in the same building as them . I had to stop because they can't be on their own. They just sat there and cried for me .So I have decided that I will stay in the class with them . Although will sit in the back and let the teacher teach while I read a book or something. Am I crazy to do this ?? If I don't , I must remove them because it is disrupting the rest of the class . This course is only offered on sat . It is their fathers language and they need to be around other children that speak the same language . I am a stay at home mom , I do activities with them everyday . they interact with kids on a daily basis . should I start thinking about putting them in pre-School now or wait ? Maybe start in the fall ? they will turn 5 late in November . This way they will have 1 full year of pre-school before they start kindergarten. I have always been a strong believer of children staying home with their mom for the first 5 years of their lives . Back in the day our parents never had pre-school and they turned out well . I understand that some moms can't afford to stay at home and that's ok . i am just starting to second guess myself !!! These are my first's and I want only the best for them HELP !!!