Ashley - posted on 11/15/2011 ( 5 moms have responded )
I am 25, my husband is 42. My husband and I have a blended family. He has one child that is 20 and I have a 3 and a 6 year old. When we first got married I had no thoughts of wanting another child but as time has gone on I realized that I do. He has had is vasectomy done for 7 years, I have talked to him a little bit about it. He says that he would do anything that I want but that although its a nice thought he is leaning more on the not too side. I am torn. Im not sure it is fair to ask of him, and I only want too if he wants a baby the same as I do. My fear is that I say nothing and we regret it later. I know if we did it would be a perfect completion of our family. Is this a good idea or should I forget it? How do I continue talking to him about it? Is it even fair to ask of him?