Maria - posted on 08/15/2012 ( 79 moms have responded )
My husband will not defend me or my son. He adopted my oldest when we married, his parnts don't treat him the same as the other two we have together. They bought school supply's, cloths, and 2 pairs of shoes for the younger two. My oldest got one pair shoes and pens and paper. Also my husband got a pair of shoes. I asked why? they had to use the buy one get one 1/2 off. So why didn't they just get him another pair...they didn't know what he would wont....why not get them and he can take them back....
This sparked a big argument
We hav had this ussue for years. We have been seperated and I am really tired of him not understanding my issue. or my feelings on the matter. My kids should be treated the same no matter what. He chose to be his father and his parents should respect it. But I feel like I am defending my son every holiday or birthday to get fair treatment. While my husband ignores the issue and says I over react.
My son and other kids are getting to ages where they can see whats happening. My oldest will be 18 soon. He's a wonderful kid.
This is not the only issue with my soon to be x-husband. And one I am sure I won't win. I am letting it go for the fact my husband will never defend me for any reason.