sick baby

Amanda - posted on 12/21/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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The last time I was on here I was asking advice about a father that was never around for pregnancy and the first eight months.. it may not sound like a long time but for me it was very hard. After reading everyones advice, I decided to work a schedule. Mon to thurs with me and fri to sun with dad. It was a big change for our son, but I figured he would need his dad in the long run...

Anyways hes been staying at his dads since mid october and each time I get him back something is wrong. He came back with a cold (I dont blame his dad.. its winter and colds are common) but hes been sick for a couple weeks now. When hes with me, he gets better and friday rolls around.. sunday I get him back and its back to square one. He also came back with an infection down there due to poor cleaning and/or not changing his soiled diaper.

Now I find out that the father is going out with his friends and leaving our son with whoever is home. I dont have anything against it but I feel like he should be at home taking care of his sick son. I am usually up all night checking his temp and cleaning all the snot in his nose and giving him meds.. am I just being difficult? I need an outsiders opinion on this..

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Amanda - posted on 12/21/2013

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I dont how to approach this situation without being called a crazy b****. I dont wamt to argue with him and I dont want to yell at him. But imo hes not taking care of his son and it drives me crazy. He fought for our son and wanted him so badly but hes just leaving him to go out. I feel that if he wanrs to go out.. then he should just drop off our son at night so I can take care of him..

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