Yolanda - posted on 06/20/2015 ( 10 moms have responded )
My 20 yr old moves home from college. She had 2 year scholarship for basketball but unfortunately was kicked off the team for fighting a another team with her team mates. Well everyone else wasn't kicked off the team but her. The coach talked with all team mates but my daughter seemed to be the one ki ked off due to her smart mouth. The coach wanted Sierra to apologize but she refused . So her scholarship was only for that remainder of that year instead of 2 , now she's home with me. Well needless to say she has a temp job, and started enrolling herself I a community college but never finished applying, meaning more paper work is needed , transcript ect. She's doing things in my home I don't approve of such as a lot of company , laying all on my furniture everyday , boys that are her age that look suspicious ,meaning not doing anything with their life. I'm not used to this at all .I have taken to her about it and she gets in my face disagreeing , cussed at me and calls me names during her argument because I don't argue, causes sense outside the home with her loud mouth and embarrassesme in front of friends. I can't take anymore . Help ! How do I handle this. Also , she has a mind that hasn't matured and Kayla follows her also by disrespecting me , she's the youngest. My middle child who just graduated doesn't and hasn't talked to me ever this way and on her way to college in august. I'm not happy and I feel myself falling in depression once again over her.
Mind you Sierra lived with her father who she cussed out and then she finished the last 2 years of high school with grandparents who thought they could change her but they had to deal with the disrespect during those 2 years with cussing . They sent her off to college but when she had to leave college early her grandparents said said she couldn't return there with them so now she's with me. I thought she changed cause of college , at least grew up ,but she didn't. That's why I thought it would be easy because she's 20 , it's not.