Marlene - posted on 04/06/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )
I hope he graduates this year - he should because he is smart, but I know he doesn't apply himself and I am more worried about his marks then he is. I wanted him to go to university next year - but he thinks he needs a year off - which makes me nervous, thinking he never will go to university if this happens and what is he going to do? He thinks he can get a job, but he hasn't got anything lined up. He does right now have a part-time job, which he doesn't seem to care too much about. He has not shown up for work at least 2 times that I know of for no good reason. He doesn't get many hours, nor does he want many hours. I sold him my car last year, and he has already been in 3 accidents (not serious, but all his fault). How am I going to get him to be more responsible for his life? I am just so worried about it. He has/had such great potential and just doesn't seem to care. He thinks I worry too much which may be true - but the fact that he doesn't worry at all seems to bother me.