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Ashley Mariah - posted on 04/26/2016 ( 8 moms have responded )

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They took the kids because my husband was being abusive towards them while I was gone and I didn't know. I just asked 1 your ago. So, that's why. My husband was being abusive towards them. They thought I was too. Also, he was drinking, smoking and taking drugs to. Also, I do not have cancer right now. Si that's why they took the children.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/26/2016

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A mental health evaluation for the OP is strongly recommended.

Ev - posted on 04/26/2016

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Ashley, can you realistically think this is possible. Having children is a big responsibility to start with just a couple or even three. But you can not keep having kids. I know a family that has 5 kids and they are all in some sort of therapy during the day, being home schooled at home (more likely not being schooled at all), and not getting the social interactions they do need. You need to get counseling for yourself as well as parenting classes to learn how to take care of so many children. Therapy alone is not enough to get them what they need from a parent. I really think you need to think this one through.

Raye - posted on 04/26/2016

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With your health problems, and your kids special needs, why are you having more kids? You can't hardly take care of the 6 you have, how are the new babies going to have the attention they need? Are your new babies by your abusive husband? What happened to him? Is he in jail for what he did? You need counseling and to get your life straightened up.

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Sarah - posted on 04/26/2016

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I have four healthy kids, a job and caring souse and it is till really hard to find the time to spend with each one and really parent. To have six kids, a spouse in jail, a precarious health history of your own and kids in and out of the system? Yet you choose to have more?
What sort of cancer id you have? Just curious?

Dove - posted on 04/26/2016

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With your health history, abuse history, and children's health history... it is completely irresponsible to keep having children.

You can not take care of your children and your history thus far that you have posted about is proof of that. What happens to your children if the cancer comes back and you die? I hate to be so blunt, but it is a very, very real possibility for you and for them.

Ashley Mariah - posted on 04/26/2016

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Well, the babies will get just as much attention. All of my children are in emotional therapy and counseling. Yes, right before my husband and I got divorced I found out I was pregnant. He is in jail. He will be there for 8 months. The older children who got taken away for a little while also get behavioral therapy and we are waiting to see if the 1 year olds do. Oh, and I am having more kids because I believe I can take care of them.

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