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Dolores - posted on 09/06/2016 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I'm reading all the stories and OMG it's like reading my story over and over. My son is 10 and at 5 I've been dealing with his ADHD. His father is not accepting it and says nothing is wrong him. But every story I read been there done that! We even got kick out of a restaurant well a legion hall because he was having a tantrum. So embarrassed felt like I have no control wanted to give up and I really wanted to give him up. Today I still feel that way why because I hate his behaviour I hate when he does ask "DO YOU REALLY LOVE ME MOM" that really hurts me cause dad has been missing alot on him over the past 5 years. I know I am his world to him but why do I get treated like the bad guy? Why? Im truly trying not to let him go. I see that I'm not alone in this world going through with my child , but in my world I am alone and it hurts to think I hate him I hate the way behaves towards and really my love is fading away.

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Dolores - posted on 09/06/2016

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No never married I have known him for 25 yrs now. Never thought he would do this to his only child. He blames me for his sister physically abusing our son. I was moving had ask her to watch him for the day cause his lazy ass wouldn't do it. Met up with her at 8am he calling me yelling at me to be on time this kid is not a morning person so of course he's having a tantrum. Well saw him at 8pm from moving all day and all I saw was bruised all over his body. He did nothing and blamed me for getting all work up. So the minute I drop him off he was in her front seat she was beating him. Then drop him off with his dad. I did what a mother would do he did nothing! He called my phone like 50 times the next 2 days. I remember it so well the nxt day was mother's day and monday he had no school. He didn't want him go for a week. She didnt get much charged with but he blames me. My son says he forgives her but wont forget it. I feel like he probably blames me as well cause I didnt take him with me. I try to keep positive but nobody knows how I truly feel.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/06/2016

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OK, good. Now...about the jackass who thinks he knows better than the physician, I am sorry you have to deal with that, and it certainly does not make things any easier!

Are you married to this guy, or have you split? Either way, he needs to change his tune, but I have no idea where to tell you to start!

Dolores - posted on 09/06/2016

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Yes I have 5 years ago he's on medication some of them he over powers them. He sees a therapist twice a month and physiatrist every other month. I'm trying everything diet sugar grams sports dog but it seems like nothing is working. I work 50 hours a week Im so exhausted. I don't sleep I dont socialize. Im afraid to take him any where cause he will react. He curses alot wont take no for answer. He has been in the hospital police have been called to our home all the yelling and screaming they we're going to give him a ticket. I hate to say this but if anything would happpen to me then let me be. Im done with this and he will not go with his father and that's another story.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/06/2016

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You have been reading, and recognizing symptoms, but have you gotten an actual diagnosis?

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