Amy - posted on 11/11/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
I am currently expecting. Completely unexpected. The father and I have/were together before all of this happened. His initial shock was upset, but he was saying that he would take responsibility in raising this baby. Now, he has done a complete 180! He is telling me that I planned this, I want this, this is my way of making sure he stays in my life, but this is definitely not something that I planned. I'm 25 years old, in school for nursing, and currently have a part-time job. He says that he will not have any part of mine or this childs life. He is family now hates me. Do men not understand that it takes two people to get pregnant? I have given him the option multiple times that he can either be his kids life or he can walk. What else does he want me to do? He is mad that I won't have an abortion and that's just not me. Will he ever come around? Is this just his way of venting? He is killing me emotionally. I hate the thought of my child growing up or coming into this world without having a father. I am completely lost and don't know what else to do.