Jaja - posted on 12/02/2014 ( 12 moms have responded )
I married a man who verbally abuses me 2 yrs of my marriage. Like calling me a bitch, motherfucker, c***sucker, moron, sick in the head and saying things like "go suck a little while c***, see you at your funeral, i will make sure our son hates you, you are a bitch you cant breastfeed, suck a rich guys c*** and many other disgusting words.
I got pregnant last year, and he got worst. Soemtimes, he would choke me. Once at night , i slapped him coz he told me to suck a rich mans c***. He then went over me and choked me , slapped me and twisted my arm. i tried to run for help. Two weeks after pregnancy, he pushed me down the bad and three weeks after, we had an arguement where i slapped him coz of abuse and he bang my head on cement wall. he then dragged me as i fell to go and clean up... i couldnt take it anymore. He would tell my 1 month old baby "your mother is bad, i will save you from her." and tells me he would make sure my kid would hate me......... i left him. 5 months after, he messages and says he still wants to be the father or that he wanted to borrow the kid. I am scared. I dont know what kind of influence he would have on my sweet son. After all the abuse, I cant trust him. Now, i live with my parents and they love my son alot. In our family, we never use dirty language/abuses, thus the shock when i got married. I lost myself and self respect. NOw, i feel empty and lonely ,but I know it would be better for my son rather than seeing and hearing abuse. I chose to raise my son alone, what do you guys think?