single mom with 26 month twins

Trina - posted on 03/16/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Any advice from moms that have a very judgemental mother out there.were constantly fighting
over things like they go to bed to late that's your fault type thing when sometimes lately yes its been very hard to get them down at decent time.im at my wits end with her but very hard cuz my girls love her.ive been doing my very best since the birth on my own, she always starting things like shes the mom when im the one whose going through everything not her!!

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Raye - posted on 03/17/2016

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If you live with her, then you might try to find a new place to live. You're right, you're the mom of these kids, and she needs to let you learn how to parent. I'm sure in her mind she's trying to be helpful because she's been through it. But if she nags all the time, then that would make anyone not want to hear it, even if it is good advice. She should treat you like an adult, and respect that you are trying to do your best for them the way you see fit.

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Trina - posted on 03/17/2016

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thankyou raye I don't live with her but am in the same town, 5min away so it feels
like I live with her.im trying to move now30 min away, and of course im getting slack from that as well.
I know in her own way she is trying to help but she gets so worked up over so many things , and things that aren't even true , she hates the fa

ther so shes got an opinion about that too cuz hes trying to be in their life now, the babies are seeing me too upset all the time and I don't think that's whats best for them that's not fair and they have heard the fighting :( I hope she will ease off but am at the point now until we move I wont even answer the door for her cuz its just going to be tension and more fighting.

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