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Desiree - posted on 01/11/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I need friends. I need friends in my situation that will let me vent. Help me get passed feeling the guilt of being a single mom and not feeling I must have done something wrong bc my family that Disney painted for me didn't work out as planned. I need help realizing God gave me this path for a reason and it was not to punish me. I've done nothing wrong. This is an inner battle I've been fighting since my ex left me at five months pregnant and now my beautiful baby girl is a year and a half. I'm doing everything right. After losing everything I'm back on top with a job, a house and all the essentials my daughter needs but I feel like something is just missing. I felt like once I got all this I would be happier. Why am I not? Please help.

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Desiree - posted on 01/12/2014

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Awe thank you :) I have a restraining order against him so he won't be seeing her hopefully anytime soon. In the two years I've learned he has massive anger issues and needs help before anything bad happens. You are right I have to make peace with it. I have too. I am still very much hurt he promised so much and turned out to be a crook. I don't have any real friends or family to talk to (that's why I can here). I think it makes it hard when you can't just say what's on your mind about everything. For me anyways. Lol

Onetraeh - posted on 01/12/2014

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wht an asshole for leaving u @ 5 months;ugh I'm really in man hating mode tonight.well I hope he does take the time to be a daddy to your daughter anyway;I think sometimes the material things don't make us as happy as we would have thought but it might be tht u don't feel stable still.with your house & job & bills coming in every month;it's still a lot to carry on your own & worry tht you'll keep it all together maybe?& u might be heartsick a little bit still since basically dude crushed your dream of having a family;well these r my thoughts anyway it might not be the case.but maybe u need to find peace in your life in a way however u may find it & I'm sure tht u r already but it helps to live below your means as far as stress wise.I don't think you've done anything wrong & u seem like such a good mother!I hope all the best for u & yours & god bless

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