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My daughters father just left us, and Im worried because she's already missing him. Any suggestions on how to handle this?

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Sharlene - posted on 10/17/2011

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Hi again so has he completely cut his own daughters out,If thats the case they dont need him in there life I would probably recommoned professional councelling for them and yourself and get alot of support from your family tell the school whats going on they could offer some councelling with the school as well. looks like they are beauiful little girls and you look after yourself and with the support from your family and friends and support groups you will make it darls all the best P.S PLEASE KEEP ME POSTED THANKS BYE

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no visitation is set up yet... i tried to let her see pics of him and her, but i can tell since he's on this "free man" mindset. i dont think we're going to hear from him that much... I dont want her to think that he doesnt love her but I also need her to realize its just going to be me and her from here on out. Am I wrong for doing that to a 4 yr old? I just dont like when she's always crying for daddy... makes me feel terrible.

Sharlene - posted on 10/17/2011

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Hi there try to talk to your daughter as much as possible try to involve her father as well. Is visitation yet involve and try to in courage to speak to there father every night or 2nd nite on the phone and keep him aware of the commuication between you and him and girl. You will be fine all the best

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