Kayleigh - posted on 11/05/2014 ( 23 moms have responded )
Hi, I am 6 months pregnant due at end of February. I found out I was pregnant after feeling so sick. I planned on moving out with my partner to a private rent house. When I found out I was pregnant I drove straight round to his flat n woke him up n shown him the test and he was like why show me a negative test n told me to fcuk off n I said its positive he was like omg no this ain't happening ... I was told by drs I would find it difficult to get pregnant after my ectopic pregnancy few years previous. I told my mum n went n told him mum together and he sat on the floor saying im Guna be a dickhead either way... If I leave or stay or tell her to get an abortion n his mum sat there n said it needs to be a joint descison ... Hinting that I should get an abortion as its what her golden boy wanted! He continually asked me to get 1 n I told him infront of his mum my joint descison is im keepin my baby to which she pulled a face! I'm so annoyed with how his family have treated me like an outsider... We moved out and it was lovely for first week ... My dad put up curtains n helped him move but when it came to helpin us he sodded off down town with his mum. Now 2/3 months down the line I asked him for a back rub because i have back pain (4 months pregnant) working 3 jobs 35+ hrs n he was gaming at 5am in the morning when I asked him he came in 20 mins later n mocked me awww 4 months pregnant n u have back pain boohoo! Then I knelt up on the bed n he mocked me for the baby i lost oooh u was ready to be a mum years ago but u lost that baby didn't u oooh did I hit a nerve?? He looks at my stomach n says n that baby in there will be dead with in a year with u as a mum ooooh did I hit another nerve ( sick smile on his face) I told him to get out my bed and leave and he said 'make me!' So I rang me dad n no answer he said 'awww daddy not answering'after that I told him to F off n go overdose on his antidepressants horrible get n then I got slated on Facebook by both him and his sister. I went me mums n he left with the internet box. Few weeks later stupidly we tried again n i got slated by me mum n dad for goin back but I'm pregnant and still love my ex few weeks later he told me me n the baby make him miserable as he loves his ex n he don't wana be a dad n coz I didnt go get the abortion he was hopin I lost the baby like the last 1! We are doin 3 days each in the house till lease is up in January n he threatened to strangle me yet now continually rings me every so aften to go round n talk ( he didn't go the last scan as he didn't know what bus he needed) he onli went last scans because I took him or his dad took him once! What should I do as now he rang me sayin we need to talk as we Guna be a mum n dad soon! He told me he coudnt cope with both me and a crying baby n get stressed how do I keep my baby safe??