Six months pregnant and alone

Carolina - posted on 12/04/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I'm having my first child, I'm six months pregnant. I was scared but excited at first because my bf told me he'd be there for me. Then when I was four months he said he didn't think it was his which really hurt. He has another girl, and since then I've been alone cried myself to sleep. I feel so stupid at times, but there's no turning back. He was never there for me and now he definitely won't be. So I'm going to be at the hospital alone which really sucks. I feel alone all the time. I know I'm better off alone but it's really hard

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Angelina - posted on 12/27/2013

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I felt that way through my whole pregnancy, although I actually had a husband. He was just NEVER there for me or didn't seem excited, he was only excited after the baby was out. Anyways, naturally women don't need men, once you become a mommy, you will literally feel like superwoman! I promise you! You live for you and most of all your baby.

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Luis - posted on 12/27/2013

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interesting post. Well not such a good idea on forcing a man to care for a child, specially when he has another woman already. This means that is not the right person for you and you will never find support on him. Why? Well he said yes at the beginning and then he rejects that idea of being together for long time and work for his baby, at the end he is the one who will leave because he does not have a mature attitude. the real questions is for you girls, is it him the right one for me? Will he be there when bad situations come? and lastly will he support me when in this situations?
i can't judge any body, but most woman give everything to this type handsome tall and strong man, and in return they just give their backs to you. However, in most relationship at the beginning everybody is someone else with time everybody show who really is. The thing is you ladies have to see those little details and days that people react on minimal situations. Those moments are the parts of some ones live to see, do not so much attention on how well he treated you in the past just look on how he behaves on dates, family, alone time and some bad days.
Long story short, every body feels alone and rejected at this precise moments. No matter what you and your baby are the most wonderful thing in this world. There are so many agencies that help pregnant woman with no support. Church, Government programs, and at colleges office. You are not alone. If there is any thing i can help you with let me know. I a friend to help any body.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 12/04/2013

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At the very least get paternity established with a dna test at birth and get that loser on the board for support orders.

Do you have any family or friends that would accompany you to the delivery?

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