Natalie - posted on 12/27/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
Hi there. I lost my little boy at 42 weeks pregnancy, on the 20th of June this year. Its been a rollercoaster and I have found that most of my husbands family have been inconsiderate.
Over the months Ive had alsorts of stupid remarks off his family etc, but I think the best texts messages was off his brothers new girlfriend, who was sending me messages and one said, I didnt understand how she felt, she was depressed as her 12month old son wouldnt sleep and she kept losing weight. After a few more stupid messages like this, I told her to stop texting me. Now I can stand the sight of her and to top it off her and him have announced they are having a baby and my mother in law stated, this is something we just have to deal with and even though Ive explained to my mother in law the messages I have been getting, she just keeps saying, Oh well she wont have meant it, shes a lovely girl! Ive been so mad and upset, I feel like all this has been done to hurt me and my husband, everyone seems to forget we lost our little boy (of 10lb 10ounces) only a few months ago and in their eyes they dont seem to think any of it should be affecting us now.
Im now 6 weeks pregnanct and Im sooooo angry! I keep thinking about the family and keep getting wound up, I just dont know what to do, I wish I could ignore them and never have to see or speak to them again, but I have my husband here, who is piggy in the middle.
Im so scared and anxious with being pregnant and dont want any of this added stress ontop.