sleep training ??

Nibedita - posted on 11/03/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )

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hi.. i am a stay at home mom to a 4 month old baby. (FTM). it seems that recently he has been hit by what people say as "4 month sleep regression" where he naps only for 30-45 mins. ( he takes 4 naps). except the morning nap which is from 8/8.30 till 10.30/10:45 . I follow a bedtime routine and put him to sleep by 9.30. But he will get up after 45mins and start crying. I try to put him back to sleep by patting or by giving a paci. it is only after the last feed ( around 11./11.30) that he will sleep but then also it takes him more than half an hour to sleep. I have the following questions :
i) is it a common issue ?? any one also facing the same problem ?? how long does this last??
ii) is self soothing recommended during this stage ?? ( ppl say they cant at this age)
iii) shouldi start sleep training ?? if yes which is the best method??. is cry it out recommended at this age ???
iv) how long should i wait for him to self soothe and then intervene ??
please feel free to share your story/experienmce and how you all overcame it.

SORRY FOR THE LONG POST .. but i seriously want to deal with this issue .

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Michelle - posted on 11/04/2016

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Nothing is "normal" at this age. Every child is different and you need to do what works for you.
I wouldn't be sleep training or doing CIO. At this age he is crying because he wants something. It could be as simple as just having you nearby.

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