So hurt that he would do this to our family. ..

Samantha - posted on 01/22/2015 ( 6 moms have responded )

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Well I'm new to this website and being a single mom. I have a one year old amazing boy and I love him so much. My ex just recently left me the day after my birthday, I was caught off guard I thought we were a happy family but I came home and he was packing his stuff. He said I needed to change and that if I did we could get back together so I changed and I wasn't getting anything back from him. Well today I found out that he has been sleeping with my brothers girlfriend of 8 years. She has been like a sister to me and she was here for me as I cried about my fiance leaving and she said she was praying for us that we would get back together and this whole time they were together. She lives next door to me and he is now at his moms house which is just down the street ... I'm stuck in the middle of them and it sucks! I'm so hurt and sad I trusted them and I thought he loved me and this has all been so shocking!! He just left me and our son and him and her act like everything is ok and they did nothing wrong... I just needed to vent... I feel so hurt.. I had planned on spending my life with this guy... and it's all gone.

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 01/22/2015

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I am so sorry Samantha. That women is a two faced liar, and no friend at all. And your husband is a despicable cheater. It is better this happened now when baby is young, so you can teach him would a respectful man is like and how relationships should work.

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Samantha - posted on 01/22/2015

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Thank you so much, I will give it my all to let him go and be strong for my son. Just trying to keep faith that this will all get easier.

Ev - posted on 01/22/2015

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I understand that totally. You just have to learn to put aside your feelings for the ex and concentrate on the baby.

Samantha - posted on 01/22/2015

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Luckily I live with my mom and she has been a great help with getting the custody papers filled out and filed. I just want to move forward with my life and try to give my son a great life. I know my ex is going to be childish about custody and he will fight me on anything I say just because he has to be right and he has to hurt me even more. I am trying to be fair and focus on what's best for my son but I know his dad won't think the same way and it's going to be frustrating

Ev - posted on 01/22/2015

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What you should be doing is getting a hold of yourself and start to plan for the future. I know you hurt and I was in the same boat but he waited until 12 years of marriage to leave. I never knew for sure that it was for a woman or not but still he left just the same. I immediately went and got a job after moving to an apartment. I worked on getting set up for things and then got a lawyer and got ready for court. Its not easy at all. Especially with kids.

Samantha - posted on 01/22/2015

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I hope to teach my son how to treat women and that cheating is so awful to do. My ex always said he would never do that to me and he was so sweet and loving I never seen this coming at all. And she came over several times and sat with me while I cried and she played with my son... and he came over and I cooked for him and tried to show him I changed but the whole time they were together and he could have said he found someone else instead of letting me believe we could fix it... I just feel so betrayed and stupid for trusting them. He was the love of my life and I would have done anything for him... it just really hurts so bad.. :(

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