Kayla - posted on 01/26/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
some one i need advice.i am a 21 year old mother.. had my first at 16 my second at 19. first off i have two adorable boys. one 4 one 2. my oldest has such a behaivor problem. he attacks his younger brother for no reason at all. he talks back constantly , i feel like such a bad guy always yelling and putting my son in time outs. he screams and whines over everything! its very frusterating. 2nd, ive been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs next month. i cheated in our relationship the first week we were together, and i used to lie to him about alot of things, now 3 years later i am changed and have tried everything to change his mind about me. ( i am 21 he is 23) . he constantly starts arguements now and makes up crazy stories in his head, then accuses me of everythung he makes up! he thinks im having sex with other men.. i just dont know. im driving myself insane because he treats me like such garbage. i love him with everything i have, and i hold onto him tight because he is the only thing that has been constant in my life. and my kids love him so much. please someone give me advice. i know i shouldnt let him control me... i just dont know what to do anymore. help!