Gina - posted on 01/17/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )
If you had a situation where you have always had issues with the wife of your ex your kids father and he request a favor of you by asking you to call this woman on 3 way so that he can say something to her really quick will you do it?
Note: this person is incarcerated and his wife has made my life impossible more so b/c he has created issues but that necessarily does not give her the rights to talk about me and wish me death etc.
so my thing is if he knows I don't really see her in the best light why would you ask me to call her on 3 way after all she's done and you have done and expect me to just call her just like that. I feel he truly is a very disrespectful person and there's boundaries that should not be crossed. This is not about jealousy or envy.
I recently told him in a letter that I was putting everything behind b/c I just want peace of mind and I told him how I forgive him and ever since I said this to him he somewhat feels like testing me he feels that my forgiving him allows him to be able to ask or request for me to do things for him and I told him that he is not understanding I forgave him for me for my peace of mind not so that he can manipulate me and tell me I have not changed b/c I did not want to call his wife on 3 way when he knows how I feel about the wife.
I may not have expressed my feelings the right way but please someone how can I tell this person my forgiving him is just that I forgave him.