Yans - posted 6 days ago ( 23 moms have responded )
Well my Son is 7 years old. When I was pregnant his father was my boyfriend so he started to hate me don't know why. After that I knew that he was consuming drugs he became an agresive person and I got scared of him. When my son was born he wasn't in the country he went back there when ny son was 2 months he neglected him and threatened me to kill me if I leave him. After he left the city I leave him through the phone because I was too scared of what he could do to me. So after that his parents helped me with 50 dollars monthly for my son support then he saw my son for 3 times when he was 3 years old. I met my husband when my son was 6 months he accepted me with my child and took care of him as his own son. Giving him everything a child need financially and emotionally. At the years of 3 my husband made the paperworkids so we could come to USA and have a better future here. Now 3 years after that my son's biological father comes that he wants to have a relationship with my son what happens is that ny son doesn't want to. We are been trying to build a life here my husband got a good job and we even bought a house. Now this man came and bring me to court saying that I kidnap my son and that because of me he couldn't see him for this whole time. Heven got the visitation order with the judge. Finstead it was 1 Sunday every 2 weeks come and take him from 12 to 4 a. Sunday my son goes with him because I tell him to go but after an hour he ask him to bring him back. Now he got the order to take him fridays night until Sunday night he lives in ny I live in mass. My son doesn't want to go with him. And he even told my son that if he doesn't cooperate he is going to take him to a psychologist to take therapy. That if he doesn't try that he is going to take him to live with him. And my son says no. He has to Skype him on Wednesday but my son doesn't want to have a conversation. In the Skype call he is always telling my son if somebody is there with him that he doesnt talk or if somebody is telling him what to say just because my son is smart and he feels that his biological father is forcing him. He only recognize my husband as his father because he is the only one that has been there for him giving him love and all he needs . I don't know what to do i want to make my son feel confortable and that I'm here for him to help him I don't want to force him to do something that he doesnt feels to.do.