Son in state prison for 12 years

Cathy - posted on 09/08/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My son doesn't like my husband of 16 yrs. he reminds me of this often. He always needs something mainly money. I have given money for years.he is 37 yrs old and I'm tired of him trying to run my life,I think of him always but don't respond to his every whim. I have tried to get him out w no luck. He has a life sentence w no parole. I'm tired,he stresses me out and frankly I choose to respond when I want. I have a good life w my husband and I choose him now,and I really don't feel bad about my choice. My son always makes me feel I don't do enough. Help

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/08/2014

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Tell your son to man up, get clean, stay out of prison, and move forward in life. It's more than time.

Cathy - posted on 09/08/2014

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He is actually married for 2 yrs now His wife helps him and I guess I sort of take the back seat now. He told me I was absent minded. I'm mad w him .i think he's jealous and angry. He always reassures me he's ok and that makes me feel good. I do want the best for him. He's been in and out of trouble since 5 the grade ,his daddy died and he came to the service in handcuffs as a young man of 18

Karen - posted on 09/08/2014

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I am sorry you are in this situation but quite honestly I think you need to quit sending him money because it seems to me like you are enabling if you keep giving him money. He IS 37 years old after all. Does your husband make you happy and treat you good? It sure sounds like he does from what you say:-) It seems to me as if your son still expects you to support him even while in prison. It is good that you don’t feel bad about your choice because you need to live for yourself and NOT your grown son.

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