Julia - posted on 09/29/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
I have a son who just turned 21. Our relationship has been deteriorating and its now to the point where I have stopped talking to him entirely. I had supported him in every way, rent, college tuition, etc. about six to eight months ago he began getting very disrespectful in front of me and my 9 year old daughter saying "shut up" shut the fuck up whenever I tell him something. I threatened to evict him and he says he will call the cops unles i evict him properly in court. I really don't understand the hatred he has all of a sudden but I no longer am paying his tuition and am taking steps to go to housing court and have him removed legally. I am shocked and stunned and hurt at his disrespect. He may apologize in front of me and my daughter then he does it again. its sick. I told him he was not my lover or husband and had no right to speak to me like that. He just keeps doing it. I can only say that I am very angry and hurt at all of the money and investment i spent on this kid like private Catholic high school that cost me 650. a month for 4 years. i can go on and on with the investment in him I had made and for what? and he turns around acting like that? esp. since my daughters Dad left 3 years ago and he knew he needed to step up and be a role model. Any thoughts?