son wanting proof

Carol - posted on 05/18/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Hi all .
I have a 36 year old son, i was diagnosed with lung cancer , my son after years of abusing me physically and having a real bad temper , wants me to show him proof of my diagnosis ,I have two other sons and daughters in law and my husband that knows exactly what i have been through, today is my birthday he walked straight passed me, feeling sad

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Michelle - posted on 05/18/2016

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How does he treat his wife?
Maybe you need to have a talk with her and possibly help her out of an abusive relationship. I'm sure that if he's like that with his own Mother then he is probably like that with his wife.
Someone needs to report him to the police though, you are all letting him get away with it and you have already said it's affecting his son. Think about the children and if you want them growing up thinking that all women should be treated like that. Someone needs to step up and break the cycle!!!

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Mercedes - posted on 05/20/2016

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First of all, Happy Birthday!!!!! I'm sorry about your recent diagnosis and that your son is not doing much to celebrate with you. It saddens me that your relationship with him is and has been like you said. We all need love and support, specially from those closer to us, but the truth is that no family is perfect. Are you safe? Does your husband stands up for you? Have you look for help? Your safety is as important as your health. Have you consider joining a church? That's always been my closest family and refuge as well as the best support group that love me and pray for me, much more than my biological one. I pray that God's comfort and healing be upon you, He know is your birthday and He's rejoicing with you.*&lt:-P party

Carol - posted on 05/18/2016

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Thank you, he is a married man , with 2 children I look after them after school, and am very close to my grandson , he is a confused little boy, as he has seen his Dad in an abusive situation. I know that he will stop them from coming to me, he walks into my house , but does not greet me at all.I have tried to talk to him , bur he calls me a liar.

Dove - posted on 05/18/2016

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If my adult child physically abused me they would find themselves in jail... You are not obligated to provide proof to him of anything and I highly recommend cutting off your relationship w/ your abuser and seeking some counseling.

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