Michelle - posted on 03/20/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
My son is 10 years old and has only been asking about his biological father for the past year. I have managed to put it off, but he is becoming more and more persistant about it. My issue is that he has not been there for him financially/physically for the past 10 years and I gave him about 6-9 months to be part of his life once he was born and all he did was not show up/cancel. I have no bitterness towards his father, just worries. He kicked me out when I told him I was keeping the baby and told me not to persue him for child support, which I haven't, and I found out he was into cocaine as well ( I have actually seen him do it and he had a fiancee that died of suspicious circumstances about 3 years ago. So I had no problems cutting ties with him, now I worry once he meets my son he will try to get some kind of custody of him and that something might happen to him while he is in his custody. I am just trying to protect my son who is an innocent and doesn't understand, Please help.