Son will be 21

Maria - posted on 08/30/2016 ( 8 moms have responded )

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Since he started driving age 17 man he changed plus he Totaled my car now he lives with 17 year old girl and never see him anymore. His birthday is in October 2 answers21 do I still get him something

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Sarah - posted on 09/04/2016

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I am not sure how you having blood in your urine has anything to do with your son? Unless i needed a ride to the hospital or doctor, I would not tell my son about my health concerns.

Dove - posted on 09/02/2016

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He's an adult. Let him live his life. He called you to find out how you are... he doesn't need to stop by all the time.

Of course you should get him some sort of recognition for his birthday. He's still your son even if he's an adult.

Not sure about the totaling the car part... did he have to pay for damages?

Maria - posted on 09/02/2016

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Now I had found Blood in Urine all he did was call for diagnosis and that was it. Not even come by it hurts.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/31/2016

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What I mean by "not sure its possible" meaning I don't know the kind of relationship you have with all of them. Maybe ALL of you (including the parents) should go out to dinner to celebrate his birthday.
If they are judging you for you being a single mom, that is their problem. Try your best not to project this on them. They may not be thinking anything like that. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. This is the choice he made.

Maria - posted on 08/30/2016

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Also even though he lives with this girl her parents allow him there, they never commicate with me ,its making me feel embarrass..the only thing is maybe they wont allow me there cause I'm a single mother. There not

~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/30/2016

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He is your son. At the very least, give him a birthday card and a call. Maybe take him and his girlfriend out to dinner all together. That would be nice, but I don't know if it is possible. Not really sure how close you all are. He needs to be very careful with anyone under 18. Depending on the laws in your state, it could be illegal. Other states require consent to be at 16.

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