Margaret - posted on 06/01/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )
I've currently been going through a divorce for over a year now. My soon to be Ex is to have the kids on the first, third and fifth weekend of the month including every Thursday from 6pm-8pm. My kids are 2 and 5. He is always trying to pick them up at times that are not stated in the papers and has told me before that from now on, he wont come for them on the Thursdays before his weekend with them. Now, today, he texted and said he wanted to pick them up today (wednesday) because he was not going to come for them the next three weekends. I really dont care if he comes at all. But it frustrates me that he thinks he can just set the days and time that he comes for them. Its not right, and unfair to the kids. My oldest misses him and I'm not ever really sure of when to tell him his dad is coming for him. My lawyer's paralegal has already stated that i cant make him pick up the kids on his weekend. Is he able to just get away with this?