Spanking for breaking curfew.

Sheila - posted on 07/03/2014 ( 21 moms have responded )

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My daughters are 16 and 18.
The 16 year old has curfew times and the 18 year old does not.
My husband and myself expected to be staying in a hotel overnight but we came back early as I was feeling a bit unwell.
Our daughters went out together and came back in 90 minutes after the younger ones curfew time.
The next morning I decided that my younger daughter was going to get a bare bottom spanking and she did take her skirt off and put herself over my knee and took her punishment. I took her knickers down. It consisted of 32 smacks ( double her age ).
To my surprise my older daughter then removed her skirt and placed herself over my knee and I gave her 36 smacks after taking her knickers down.
I did think my older daughter needed punishment as she was the one who organised the night and I was pleased she took it without being forced.

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Desiree - posted on 02/14/2015

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Sheila...Way cool that you set them up with the hotel thing. Not one of these morons even caught that. Next time, though, make them both get naked for it. It's awesome how humiliated they get and the law can't touch you. My husband and I checked. Legal aide for social services told us that fundamentally it's no different than if you saw your nude child being stung by bees in the bathroom and swatted them furiously.

Sheila - posted on 07/07/2014

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Hi Julie

They were not whipped. I think of it being a whipping if they are hit with an instrument eg a cane.
They both have apologised and said they thought we would not be in but we were and they took their punishment.
They don't normally break curfew.
The older one said she knew she had not broken any rules but she organised the evening and deserved punishment as she had encouraged her younger sister to break the rules.
As she said she presented her bottom for spanking. She did not want any bitterness between herself and her younger sister.
They have both learned their lesson and now want to put it behind them.

Cody - posted on 07/15/2014

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You are disgusting. A disgusting pervert who obviously gets some kind of sick satisfaction out of spanking her GROWN DAUGHTERS (yes, 16 years old is "grown" physiologically speaking) on their bare asses.

You know what you do when a teenager disobeys your rules? You take away their phone and internet. You don't allow them to go out with their friends for a set period of time. You give them extra chores.

You DON'T make them strip down so that you can spank their bare asses, you creepy, nasty, ill excuse for a mother.

Sheila - posted on 07/04/2014

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I think they should be aware how much it hurts to be smacked from experience of previous spankings and it is happening a lot less now.
When they were 10 they were getting a spanking almost every month usually 20 smacks on the bare.
My older daughter got 2 spankings when she was 17 and my younger daughter got 3 when she was 15.
Oddly enough my younger daughter has spoken to me since and she has said that she felt she was in danger of falling when she was over my knee as she is about 3 inches taller than me and suggested she should bend over if she needs spanking again.
I did reply that if she behaved herself she would not be smacked but I think this illustrates that she does accept she was wrong and had to be punished but I have agreed to the bending over part. I will make her bend over a chair.
I saw my sister smacking her cousin once and she bent over and touched her toes but I told my sister she could topple and injure herself and she now bends over a chair.
With regard to the effectiveness of spanking my oldest daughter tried smoking when she was 15 but she was aware in advance of the consequences a 4 times her age bare bottom spanking which was watched by her younger sister.
She never smoked again and I think her younger sister took this as a warning.
I told my oldest daughter smoked again she would get 6 times her age.

Sheila - posted on 07/03/2014

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My daughters do not generally break curfew times and I don't punish them if a train is held up for example providing they phone. If they want to go and see something which will involve getting in say 30 minutes after their normal curfew time I will generally let it happen.
They did take advantage that night and my youngest one knew she would get a smacked bottom if caught.
My older daughter took her skirt off as soon as I started smacking my younger daughter and as soon as I finished my older daughter stood in the position she normally stood in just before they go in before a spanking.
I helped her to get in to position which she knew very well and took her knickers down to knee level.
Really I don't think she wanted any bad feelings between her younger sister and herself so she really volunteered to have her bottom smacked.
Her 18th birthday was 3 months ago. She broke her curfew 3 days before her 18th birthday and got 34 smacks.
When I was naughty I had the cane from my mother bare bottom.

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 02/14/2015

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This thread is old, and since the last comment consisted of name calling, I am closing it down.

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Menacing_nemesis - posted on 07/16/2014

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Am I the only one who doesn't believe this story? After 13 years of using the internet I guess I'm skeptical about pretty much everything.

Anyway if this story is real my problem with it is the curfew. You're gonna let your 18 year old stay out but not the 16 year old? Doesn't really seem fair to me. The spanking I think is kinda weird to do to a teenager but hey they're not my kids.

Who calls pants knickers by the way? Did you take a time machine from 1900 or something? lol

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 07/07/2014

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Sorry, Sheila, but you are an abusive person. An adult understands that assaulting people of those ages is wrong.

Stop trying to justify yourself to us.

Joanna - posted on 07/07/2014

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I am a firm believer in spankings. I have seven children. All have been spanked, but never in their teens. I think we stopped spanking at about age 10. We didn't actually have an age set, but somehow, you just know it is wrong after that.

Julie - posted on 07/06/2014

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uh, "pleased she took it without being forced?" I'm sorry but that sounds criminal to me. IF she "bent over" on her own accord it was (A.) fear from years of abuse or( B.) She'd already decided the punishment was worth the crime. At 16 and 18 I guarantee they agreed breaking curfew would be worth a whipping. I'm not sure what lesson you are trying to teach your girls by bending a 16 year old and legal adult over your knee, but it's not cool at all.

Dove - posted on 07/04/2014

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The fact that your daughters both consented to this means they are used to be abused and they think it is ok. If you had tried to do that to a NORMAL person of their age... you would have got knocked on your butt. Please, please, please stop abusing your family and get some serious help....

Dove - posted on 07/04/2014

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Your whole family should get serious psychological help immediately. That's some sick, freaky crap going on in your home.

Ev - posted on 07/04/2014

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This so wrong on so many levels to spank as you do. You have been told that it is considered assult for the 18 year old. And 16 is way to old for spankings. It is against the law in most of not all states and considered some sort of abuse. I also hope your girls wake up and see what this is about.

A - posted on 07/04/2014

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I agree with spanking a child when it is serious but not at that age- 18 is an adult so it is assault no matter what you believe. And 16 is too old too

Michelle - posted on 07/04/2014

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In a lot of places what you are doing is child abuse/assault. It's not tolerated and punishable by law.

I hope your daughters decide to press charges once they realize that what you are doing is wrong.
They are far too old to be spanked, you should really come up with other punishments. Taking away privileges is a better way to start. Ground them, but stop spanking them.

Ev - posted on 07/03/2014

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That still does not make it right. As girls become young women they are also still developing and spanking them in this fashion might hurt them more than you think. THey are too old to be spanked now. Its just not done at this age.

Ev - posted on 07/03/2014

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I have to agree with Shawnn. This is way too old for spanking a child under the age of 18 but is not below the age of 16. Spanking an older child really does not work at that age. And giving that many smacks based on doubling age and without the clothing on where I live is considered abuse. If you were so adamant about punishment/consequences you could have grounded the 16 year old from going out for a couple of weeks. But as SHawnn said if the older child was with the 16 year old then even in my case curfew would not be needed (my daughter is 24). The older child should not have been spanked either and that is considered assult.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 07/03/2014

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You need to learn a different discipline method, because 'spanking' an 18 year old is actually physically assaulting another adult.

Good luck with that.

Personally? If my younger son was with his older brother, curfew was not a requirement. You need to learn how to loosen up.

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