Stay at home mom Fed up with Husband HELP

Cherie - posted on 01/07/2018 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Ok so I'm a stay at home mom. My son lives with his dads parents and my girls live with me. My husband is driving me nuts and i don't know what to do anymore. He refuses to keep a job. He is financially irresponsible, and when he gets angry he hits things or breaks things (never has hit me). He also refuses to have sex with me more than 2 times a month. So in the five years we have been together he has had one job that he kept for more then three months. After each of these jobs it takes him 3 or more months to find a new one. He won't let me work because i wouldn't make enough money to support us yet the one job he kept longer then 3 months was 9 months at a gas station which he still eventually quit. I have tried talking to him about all of these issues and all it does is make him angry and he turns it on me so im the bad guy. I told him im upset and im depressed and he told me to go see a therapist. I still love him but i have no idea how to fix any of these things.

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Michelle - posted on 01/10/2018

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I have since read this again and am wondering why your son isn't with you.

Kassie - posted on 01/09/2018

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Have you seen a therapist? Maybe that would help you individually and as a couple! I know when my husband and I went to a therapist it changed both of us for the good. To just be able to speak honestly in a safe place.
I agree with the other comment, maybe you should get a job?
Honestly, this is a hard situation, I am so sorry! Prayers!

Michelle - posted on 01/07/2018

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I suggest you go out and get yourself a job. If he complains about it tell him that he's not doing a good job providing for the family so you will.
I would also make plans to be on your own. He is very controlling and no one deserves to be treated like that.
Why is your son not with you?

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