stay at home mom. feeling defeated, alone,overwhelmed.

Heaven - posted on 07/19/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Hello my name is heaven. I am new on here. I just really needed to vent .maybe find some kind of hope that things will get better. My issue is I feel as though my husband doesn't help me enough with the kids. Grant the fact he works Mon thru Friday 7am to 4 pm. But after work he takes a nap and 5 out of 7 days he goes to his friend house to smoke cigars. I mean really I can use your help at home. I have a 8 year old daughter she is pretty good and helps out with my 1 year old son. But that is not her job to do so. Although i do appreciate her. now my son he is a hand full. Like a little chucky doll.I mean he was great 2 months ago. Sleep threw the night took naps. Oh no not anymore .. He is full of energy all day long. And hits his sister attacks me. I try to put him on time out. That don't work. I try to put him in his play pin.or crib he jumps right out. He doesnt sleep in his crib anymore .he jumps out at night.right into my bed.I tried everything to get him back in his room into his crib.to no avail.no sleep for me.no break. He wants to play with me or his sister all day. I'm tired .I am a stay at home mom living in a new state where my husband is from. I came to Ohio from ny. With no friends nor family here. I hate that I just can't do anything at all just be with my kids. I don't feel like the women I once was. I went from on the go working fashion mom.to stay at home lonely mom. I love my kids to the moon and back.I just feel overwhelmed and disconnect from the world. Thanks for reading my issues God bless. Any advice will help thank u

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Maria - posted on 07/19/2016

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ya dawn is rite.plz ask for help and he might help u.it happened to me with my son and i asked for help.

Christina - posted on 07/19/2016

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So, I was thinking maybe you can send him to a child care part- time and that way you can have some "me time". Also, I would tell your husband how overwhelmed you are. Maybe you both can come to some type of compromise. I hope and pray everything turns out for the best...=)
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Dawn - posted on 07/19/2016

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Hi heaven,
It sounds like you definitely have your hands full. I know how frustrating it can be to feel all alone. Does your husband know how you are feeling?

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