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Hi. I know that this is really a Mum's site. But I am a man in need of some advice. Is it still ok for me to stay on the site. Thank you.

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/13/2014

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Hate to say it, but it is over. Walk away and move on. Sorry that it ended that way, but every story has 2 sides, and I would love to hear hers. I understand you got attached to those children, and this doesn't mean you cannot still send them birthday cards, and gifts for holidays. But it sounds like its over dude.

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/13/2014

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You can do it from your profile page. I would rather not because then it will permanently remove you from this site and you will not ever be able to join again if we do finally get a mens site. That would be a shame.

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Thank you for giving me a chance to talk to you. How do I close my account down or will you do it from your end. Thanks again Gary

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/13/2014

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A year or more ago they were promising to create a mens site and never did. I was going to run that site. I am really disappointed they kept pushing it off until it was not a priority any longer. Instead, advertising is top dog around here.

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Ok thank you for all your replies. I am sorry I can't stey on the site. I wish they had something like this for men. Its been nice to be able to talk to you. And thanks again. Gary

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/13/2014

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You don't, unless you completed the adoption process.

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Don't I have any rights to see the kids or have any say in their up bringing I have got parental responsibility. I know it is going to be very hard work to get them to trust and look up me again but I love them so much and will do what ever it takes. I no it is going to be heart breaking because we had such a good bond and they called me dad but all that has gone now. I know what my wife will say if you were to speak to her. I never showed her any love or support I only loved the children and not her. My wife will also say that she gave and did everything for me and I did nothing in return. I have heard nothing else but that for the 2 years that we have been separated.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/13/2014

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I'd have to say the same. It sucks, for the kids, because if you became attached, I'm certain they did as well, but if momma doesn't want you around...

Unless there was completed adoption paperwork on the kids, you may have to just let go. Send them birthday wishes, etc, as Little Miss suggests, but unfortunately, that may be the most you can do.

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I have been seprated from my wife now for 2 years now and she has 3 Children which I was a step dad to and I always thought we would get back together but everything I say and do is wrong. But I love the kids to bits and they used to call me dad. But now they have been turned against me and I have been runed down in front of them. I just don't know what to do because my head is say walk completely away. But my heart is saying something else I am lost.

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