Viktoria - posted on 09/04/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )
So I have been married to my husband for 6 years. He had two boys from his prior marriage and I had two boys from my prior marriage. The problem is his children disrespect me every chance they get. I was recently out of town and found out that someone (although no one will accept responsibility) had sex in our bed. My husband was with me so I know it wasn't him. They will smart off to the point that we were out to dinner last night with them and I told my husband it was time to go. My husband also has a problem with constantly allowing them to not be responsible for their bills. (He is always going behind my back and paying for them). They are 22 and 20, one graduated college and both have jobs. It would not be a big deal except that the same rules do not apply for my children. I sent my 19 year old $100 to help him pay for a bill he had and my husband was "why did you not discuss it with me first" then turned around 2 days later and paid $350 in dental bills for one of his kids because he does not brush his teeth and had 7 cavities. SERIOUSLY??? I try to talk to my husband about this and he just blows me off. I am about to the point of blowing out of this marriage because I am not his children's whipping post and my husband will be right there and say nothing, but when I stand up for myself he tells me to let it be. I do not know what to do at this point. I will say that the only time we fight about anything in this marriage is when it comes to his children and how they never come around unless they want something from him and then find a way to disrespect me and my home in the process.