Kelly - posted on 03/16/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
I am having a lot of difficulty with one of my step daughters you used to be close when she was smaller she is now 8 years old and I dred the weekends when she comes over we have a lot of children in the house so its always loud but when the girls come over its horrible every one is loud running fighting its a totally different environment. and I try not to point fingers but you constantly hear her name shes fighting with this one or one of the kids is complaining because she hit them or shes being mean or wont include them and lately when I catch her and lecture ir try to talk to her she is mouthy and disrespectful or wont even acknowledge me she will ignore me and act like she cant hear me. when she does get in trouble she constantly points the finger or blames someone else. on top of that two of my children have brought to my attention that she is always bringing up the word sex and talking about it now from what ive gathered its just the word and saying it happens with a guy and a girl and she says their naked which I started to panic at this point why would she even be talking about this and now shes putting it out there for my kids who are young as well. I know shes a bit to handle and its worse now that her mom has her on three diffrent type of medication during the week saying she has ADHD but she wasnt this bad before the meds now she is unbearable I barely have any bond with her and have thought about leaving my fiance because I can no longer deal w her or her mother has anyone ever felt like this before? any advice?