Michelle - posted on 07/28/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
OK I have been with a man for about four years and we have three children. they are twins and a two year old. he has a ten year old daughter whom I love very much! but about a year ago we started having problems!! it started when I got upset at her dad and he will do little stuff like making fun of me while I'm upset and she will laugh. I go down stairs to calm down and she follows and asked me " what are you pouting for" when I told her dad he said I was wondering the same thing!!... I can't believe he would let his daughter disrespect me like that in my house.. he works all the time so I have her all the time.. she will send text to her mom saying that she is up at six in the morning with all the kids.... a complete lie!! and then she is mean to my babies she yanked my two year old off his tricycle and spanked him for no reason she will grab him by his head and scream in his face when she thinks no one is listening.. she tells her grandpa I said she wasn't aloud to go with him.... which was a complete lie.. she doesn't mind me and back talks me... and when I try to punish her my bf and his parents tell me I can't. then when I talk to them about how it bothers me they say " we never said u can't get on to her". but yet when I do they say I can't do that.. its to the point where I dread her coming and start having anxiety attacks. I love my bf and he is the father of my kids and I try to treat her the same as I do mine.. but she doesn't have to give me the same respect??????? how is that.. now it is to the point where he says I'm jealous of her and hate her... that is not true at all I don't like her behavior and the way she treats me and lies in me and there is nothing I can do about it... she makes everyone believe her mom his so horrible to her but then tells me she is her moms favourite and then I read her text messages and her mom tells her to sneak down when her sister goes to sleep she has a surprise for her all the time. idk what to do but my children will not act like that and I will not have them feel like she is favored because she can.... Idk what to do anymore cause now it is causing us to fight all the time! I feel like if I treat her like my own she needs to act like my own or when her dad is working which is 90% of the time she needs to stay with his mom.... please help me???