Ida Night Mukoza - posted on 03/18/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
I have a step daughter who drives me crazy. She is 11 years old now. She is very disobedient, have no respect at all for me, sometimes even pointing out that I am black and looks at me like like she would actually hurt me one day, and this is very scary. She is with us every other weekend and the rest of the days, she is with her really mother and step father. Her mother hates me a lot and from her behavior, it actually seems to me that she is sometimes been told by her mother on how to treat me. She insists on sleeping in our bedroom and used to always want to sleep in between me and my husband until I put my foot down and asked her if she sleeps with her mother and step father as well. Of course the answer was no. She is extremely jealousy of me and it is really scary, but what hurts most is when I speak to my husband to have a talk with her, he says that his child is normal and everything is fine. I have thought of a divorce because sometime it seems like she is competing with me and she should be the woman of the house. I do not see why I should suffer and also be unhappy because of another woman's child. Would you please tell me what you would do in this situation?