Step Mom

Kimberly - posted on 04/23/2014 ( 11 moms have responded )

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Have anyone had to deal with being a step mom and the biological mom making it difficult for you and your husband to see the child/children?

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/24/2014

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Maybe not board of ed, but definitely district superintendent, Kimberly. The more vocal your husband is to the other parties that are supposed to be sharing info, the better chance he has of it happening it sooner.

And, honey, if someone could answer that question, I know a lot of non custodial parents, both moms & dads, that would be relieved. Personally it would be a hell of a lot easier on us steps as well...

Good luck with this!

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/24/2014

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well, I was hoping a little older, so that he could request his own copies of progress reports, etc to give to his dad...

That wouldn't be a good idea at his age.

Kimberly - posted on 04/24/2014

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Actually we do it every year and give the school a copy of the order. But you gave me an idea, its the board of education we may need to pay a visit. Trust you guys have given such wonderful advise and we have done it or doing it now. Million dollar question... why cant we all just get along when children are involved.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/24/2014

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He needs to be more proactive, then. HE can take the court orders into the school and have himself added to his child's record. He can also pursue prosecution for parental alienation.

As Jodi stated, continue to document everything. Have your husband take his court orders to the school, physician, and anywhere else that he needs to be added to his child's records, and get that done. He cannot depend on her to do so, because she's already proven she won't, so he needs to quit passively waiting for it to just happen, and take some action.

Kimberly - posted on 04/24/2014

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That exactly what we're are doing... I having such a hard time trying to understand why is all this is happening. So many women deal men who have no involvement with their child. To watch my husband hurt because this woman is blocking his every path from his only child. Even in the school system, the curt says in his order he has the right to report cards and progress reports. But the school wont give it to him because she won't put him down when she registers him. So he gets it when and if ever she feels like it.

Jodi - posted on 04/24/2014

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So file contempt orders. Take her back to court. keep evidence of how she keeps breaking the orders.

Kimberly - posted on 04/23/2014

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Thanks Jodi, did that been going on for four years now. She don't abide by court order.

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