Tiffany - posted on 07/27/2015 ( 8 moms have responded )
I am a very young step mother of 2. I also have one of my own he is 4 my older two are 9 and 11. There bio mom left them when they were baby's. My husband has sole custody of both of them. When i came into the picture my kids where 2 and 4. I have been with them ever since day in day out. I love my kids with all my power and hate to see them upset. My kids are my babies and i would do anything for them. Now that they are getting older they do not want to see there bio anymore and my husband and myself dnt know what to do so any suggestions? As well the bio mom just recently cheated on her boyfriend and it was posted all over face book. My 11 yr old was on his grandmothers phone and seen the posts that were put up and now is very upset with his bio mom and wants to tell her something about it he has also told his sister what happened. When my son talked to his mom she said that it was the boyfriends fault they are not together. Now they went over there and she said they are trying to work it out. It is such a mess I dnt know what to do anymore. My son and daughter know the truth and are very upset and i dnt know what to tell them. I dnt want them to think this is ok and grow up being a cheater or getting cheated on and staying cuz they think its normal. This is a very crucial age range and I need help!!!!