Carmelita - posted on 02/03/2016 ( 11 moms have responded )
Hello, My name is Carmen and I share 2 awesome boys with my ex-husband. They are 14 and 12. My 14 yr old was having some issues and I had been talking to him about them and I spoke to his dad. His step-mother took the matter into her own hands and took him to counseling at her church. This is fine, but she didn't call, text, message me anything about it. Didn't ask me what I thought. There was absolutely no communication whatsoever. I as a mother just want to be kept in the loop and I feel it's part of my decision where my son goes to counseling. I feel like instead of communicating with me about her concerns for my son, she just wanted to beat me to the punch. This isn't the first time she has done this. I had already warned her about taking matters into her own hands without communicating with me first. We were sharing the boys every other week because we live only 5 blocks from eachother. But I have had the boys come back to live with me because she refuses to keep me in the loop where my kids are concerned. Any advice or comments??