Heather - posted on 08/29/2014 ( 8 moms have responded )
I am having a hard time with this situation. My daughter is 5. Her father is remarried and we all get along ok. My problem is this. When I have an issue I go to her father and when he feels like the conversation is not going his way or he does not agree he ignores me totally. So school just started. Stepmom has tried to call the new school that my daughter is at to set up a separate parent teacher conference (which I invited her to come to meet the teacher and she did come), to find out about car tags(which I had in the envelope the teacher gave me to give to her), and who is on the pickup list. I told my ex that I did not appreciate stepmom going over my head and calling the school and that they should ask me instead. He ignores me. So I text her and tell her basically the same thing, very nicely. I appreciate everything you do as a step parent for my daughter but certain boundaries need to be in place. No answer from her either. They basically ignore me and do whatever they please. I am so frustrated BEYOND BELIEF with these people. Help!