Marie - posted on 09/03/2016 ( 10 moms have responded )
I need advice. My husband and I have been together for 12 years. He raises my 15 year old daughter as his own and we have a 9 year old son together. He also has a 13 year old from a previous relationship. When his son was 4 we filed for joint custody because she was denying him visitation (even though she received $600 a month in child support). Anyways, we were granted joint custody everything we asked for. The problem is she lives in a different city and bad mouths my husband to everyone. She doesn't even list him as his father on his paperwork for school. She lists her husband. She bad mouths him on social media as well only referring to him as "dad" and that he can't wait until he goes back home to her. But my problem is he loves it when he is down with us. He has so much family that loves him. I can't understand why a woman would continuously do this even after 9 years of us having joint custody. I know she also tells their son things in hopes that he won't like his time with us. Its taking everything in me to not tell her something but should I?